_ wrote:A few things to think about:
First, the truth is a cumulation of perspectives.
Peoples answer to a question will vary depending on the context and the audience.
If you look for the real story, it comes from several truths. As such, there will be contradictions.
You have the facts. With all due respect, it is your interpretation that is lacking.
People are not consistant across settings. They simply are not. Believing this to be a flaw in the facts is due to two dimensional thinking. It assumes that we always consider everything around us, everything that has proceeded us, and it presumes that everyone thinks and perceives the same way. None of these things are valid.
Just this last week I had somebody invite me into their LinkedIn network. He was an employee of mine. In his invitation, he also waxed on about how great it was to work together. The thing is? I fired him. In fact, it was probably the bloodiest firing I've ever had to do.
People remember what they can handle to remember.
Bosses only air the bad things about the people that work for them in the right setting. I got the story I got because Steven knew what I needed it for. But in other settings, it is not going to be the same. Again the DVD is a celebration. Also, talking publically about the screw-ups that happen underneath you reflects badly on you. First for airing it and scone for having hired the screw-up.
This is the danger to me of providing y'all with "truth" in the form of hard facts. You tend to think all you need to do is line 'em up. When it foes not make sime sense, you say "I'm not calling anybody a liar, but I don't think we will ever know the true story.
I no longer take it as an insult. It is simply an example of limited thinking.
That is a good point, _. In regards to my line of work, many people (especially those that watch too many crime shows on tv) believe that an eyewitness is crucial in sucessfully prosecuting a case. Not so fast my friends. Check out this quote from Criminal Investigation, sixth edition.
"Eyewitness identification and description is regarded as the most unreliable form of evidence and causes more miscarriages of justice than any other method of proof.
Research and courtroom experience provide ample evidence that an eyewitness to a crime is being asked to be something and do something that a normal human being was not created to be or do. Human perception is sloppy and uneven."
Isn't what we are doing here, like investigating a crime that occurred 30 years ago? The point was already made that _'s "interview" of DL was more like an "interogation". In trying to piece together the story of the Raiders fedora, you will have to decide how reliable each witness' recollection is, the competence of both witnesses and physical evidence, and you will have to decide how much weight you give each piece of evidence as it is presented.
Because some stories may not match, doesn't necessarily mean that someone is lying. It doesn't mean that someone is a bad person. Perceptions are different, sometimes they may not be talking about the same thing or the same time, and memory fades. Heck, at my age, I don't remember what I did yesterday, so don't ask.
Will we ever know the whole story about this hat? Maybe, but more than likely, maybe not. It is the basis for a fascinating conversation.
Now, about those people that watch too many crime shows on tv. They are also the ones that expect all hairs and fibers to be collected and sent to the FBI's lab, and molds taken for all the footprints and tire tracks, and tool mark samples taken, photographs, any fingerprints collected, a canvas of the neighborhood, and anything else they can think of, to investigate the case of their favorite petunia that got stolen out of their flower bed. I got news for 'ya, unless one or more people were killed in the theft of said petunia, that ain't gonna happen.