Avoiding the "man-purse" thought
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Well, I figure that if I just saw a guy in a kilt with his face painted like William Wallace just walking to class nonchalantly today, and another with short shorts and black army boots, I can wear a MKVII and be perfectly secure in my choice.
Maybe it is just because I'm on a college campus, but people don't seem to care what you wear as long as it isn't offensive these days.
Maybe it is just because I'm on a college campus, but people don't seem to care what you wear as long as it isn't offensive these days.
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I see kilts quite often in my neck of the woods.Zach R. wrote:Well, I figure that if I just saw a guy in a kilt with his face painted like William Wallace just walking to class nonchalantly today, and another with short shorts and black army boots, I can wear a MKVII and be perfectly secure in my choice.
Maybe it is just because I'm on a college campus, but people don't seem to care what you wear as long as it isn't offensive these days.
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Putting aside all the gender issues that some people have with a guy carrying a "man purse"..........
....the fact is that it just makes sense.
Maybe some guys like to have their pockets bulging and lots of stuff strapped onto their belts. But, when I got the Coach bag (below) for my birthday.....I'll tell ya, it just makes sense.
On any given day, I'm carrying a wallet, keys, an iPhone, a pen and -- if depending on what I'm going to be doing while I'm out -- I might also want to carry along a digital camera or a book. Maybe a magazine.
It's simple and it works.
So, call it a satchel, messenger bag, or a "man purse". If someone has an issue about me doing something that makes my life more convenient, that says more about them than me.
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....the fact is that it just makes sense.
Maybe some guys like to have their pockets bulging and lots of stuff strapped onto their belts. But, when I got the Coach bag (below) for my birthday.....I'll tell ya, it just makes sense.
On any given day, I'm carrying a wallet, keys, an iPhone, a pen and -- if depending on what I'm going to be doing while I'm out -- I might also want to carry along a digital camera or a book. Maybe a magazine.
It's simple and it works.
So, call it a satchel, messenger bag, or a "man purse". If someone has an issue about me doing something that makes my life more convenient, that says more about them than me.
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How awesome would it be if everyone would just stfu and let dudes carry satchels without calling them "man-purses"? I don't mind the wallet in the back pocket so much, but the keys and the cell phones in the front pockets just looks stupid and feels uncomfortable. There's so much @#$% you have to carry around, it'd be easier to have a bag to put it in.
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That is one thing I favour about wearing a suit or sport jacket to work. I have many more pockets to work with so I can spread the bulk around.Mark Brody wrote:How awesome would it be if everyone would just stfu and let dudes carry satchels without calling them "man-purses"? I don't mind the wallet in the back pocket so much, but the keys and the cell phones in the front pockets just looks stupid and feels uncomfortable. There's so much @#$% you have to carry around, it'd be easier to have a bag to put it in.
I think it's the ladies' fault that we abhor the thought of the 'man-purse'. I mean how many times have we seen a lady digging through her purse looking for something. This is especially annoying in a long queue.
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Sorry people, but when you get into your 40s or 50s, all you can do is look at someone mocking you for carrying a fine leather bag and think they are stupid or something.
It's not as if I am going to curse or sarcastically rip on them like we were in high school, but you get to a certain point where the only person whose satisfaction is important is your own, and when you have a super-stressful job, kids, a mortgage, a PITAW, etc. the least you can do is reward yourself with a nice bag like that Coach above.
Sure, I could have gotten a nylon Eddie Bauer for 20 bucks, but went with a fine leather $214.90 man's bag from Tony Perotti, and it has gotten lots of appreciating looks from many people who have seen it. Bottom line, if it does what you need, it, and you think its attractive - what else is there?
It's not as if I am going to curse or sarcastically rip on them like we were in high school, but you get to a certain point where the only person whose satisfaction is important is your own, and when you have a super-stressful job, kids, a mortgage, a PITAW, etc. the least you can do is reward yourself with a nice bag like that Coach above.
Sure, I could have gotten a nylon Eddie Bauer for 20 bucks, but went with a fine leather $214.90 man's bag from Tony Perotti, and it has gotten lots of appreciating looks from many people who have seen it. Bottom line, if it does what you need, it, and you think its attractive - what else is there?
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As they say in certain neighborhoods, WORD.Mark Brody wrote:How awesome would it be if everyone would just stfu and let dudes carry satchels without calling them "man-purses"? I don't mind the wallet in the back pocket so much, but the keys and the cell phones in the front pockets just looks stupid and feels uncomfortable. There's so much @#$% you have to carry around, it'd be easier to have a bag to put it in.
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I've said it before, I'll say it again. Have you noticed what the kids are wearing these days?
Goth kids with their eyeliner, green hair, and piercings in places I try to keep sharp objects away from.
Wannabe Rappers with their pants around their knees, prison tats, and mouths full of shiny jewels.
The surfer kids....who dress like surfers even if they live in Omaha.
If you want to wear a fedora and a bag....I don't think you'll stand out that much really. If they don't like it, "sc%w em."
Goth kids with their eyeliner, green hair, and piercings in places I try to keep sharp objects away from.
Wannabe Rappers with their pants around their knees, prison tats, and mouths full of shiny jewels.
The surfer kids....who dress like surfers even if they live in Omaha.
If you want to wear a fedora and a bag....I don't think you'll stand out that much really. If they don't like it, "sc%w em."
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You're spot on with that jeremy, but not this kid. You don't even have to wear Indy gear to think "fashion" nowadays is getting ridiculous. Me, I just stick with my trusty jeans and t-shirt. Don't know why everyone is trying to attract so much attention with what they wear. I'm not saying not to wear Indy gear. Those of you who wear it in public aren't looking for attention like most people. You just want to wear what you want to wear and don't care what other people think. Now that I can admire.jeremy3178 wrote:I've said it before, I'll say it again. Have you noticed what the kids are wearing these days?
Goth kids with their eyeliner, green hair, and piercings in places I try to keep sharp objects away from.
Wannabe Rappers with their pants around their knees, prison tats, and mouths full of shiny jewels.
The surfer kids....who dress like surfers even if they live in Omaha.
If you want to wear a fedora and a bag....I don't think you'll stand out that much really. If they don't like it, "sc%w em."
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I wear the MK VII more frequently than any other piece of gear. I couldn't give a rats arse about any 'man-purse' stigma! Anyone who thinks something as trivial as a shoulder bag determines someones sexuality IS an ignorant f###ing redneck! No exceptions! :evil:
It kills me that some are so insecure about something as innocuous as this!
It kills me that some are so insecure about something as innocuous as this!
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Nice but do your heels match?bobjones wrote:I just started using this one this week, and it is perfect for the urban jungle activities of manhattan:
http://www.tonyperottiusa.com/detail.asp?prod=80
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Good call. Like I always say, if I think something is manly, then it just is.conceited_ape wrote:I wear the MK VII more frequently than any other piece of gear. I couldn't give a rats arse about any 'man-purse' stigma! Anyone who thinks something as trivial as a shoulder bag determines someones sexuality IS an ignorant f###ing redneck! No exceptions! :evil:
It kills me that some are so insecure about something as innocuous as this!
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Hey buddy, you want to step outside?Tennessee Smith wrote:Nice but do your heels match?bobjones wrote:I just started using this one this week, and it is perfect for the urban jungle activities of manhattan:
http://www.tonyperottiusa.com/detail.asp?prod=80
Actually my closest matching boots were bought to replace my J. Crew lug sole boots from the early 1990s, but actually ended up being a reasonably close facsimile to the Indy boot. There are:
http://shop.rockport.com/product/index. ... age=family
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Knew that'd get me into trouble.jeremy3178 wrote:Hey hey, easy on the "rednecks", some of them aren't so bad.
But i'll clarify. Since i'm an Aussie, I can only refer to Aussie rednecks, or 'Bogans', if you will. These folk often get their meager kicks out of shooting their mouths off long before the thoughts come (if at all).
By the 'authority' of the Aussie bogan, my masculinity and sexuality is immediately brought into question should I be seen with my 'man-purse'.
Honestly, I cannot think of anything more saddening than senseless displays of testosterone poisoning.
here here...or should that be hear hear?? lol in any case agreed. My bag goes everywhere with me (even to work everyday)! My finance and mates give me heaps about it but its all in good fun, and it really is convenient to carry to keep stuff in...just gotta empty everything out to find my keysconceited_ape wrote:Knew that'd get me into trouble.jeremy3178 wrote:Hey hey, easy on the "rednecks", some of them aren't so bad.
But i'll clarify. Since i'm an Aussie, I can only refer to Aussie rednecks, or 'Bogans', if you will. These folk often get their meager kicks out of shooting their mouths off long before the thoughts come (if at all).
By the 'authority' of the Aussie bogan, my masculinity and sexuality is immediately brought into question should I be seen with my 'man-purse'.
Honestly, I cannot think of anything more saddening than senseless displays of testosterone poisoning.
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I was just giving you a hard time, I've been accused of "pigeon holing" groups of people on here before. So I figured that was a good time to give some back. lol.conceited_ape wrote:
Knew that'd get me into trouble.
But i'll clarify. Since i'm an Aussie, I can only refer to Aussie rednecks, or 'Bogans', if you will. These folk often get their meager kicks out of shooting their mouths off long before the thoughts come (if at all).
By the 'authority' of the Aussie bogan, my masculinity and sexuality is immediately brought into question should I be seen with my 'man-purse'.
Honestly, I cannot think of anything more saddening than senseless displays of testosterone poisoning.
But I know what you are talking about.
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Sure, weather's great today!!!Hey buddy, you want to step outside?
Actually my closest matching boots were bought to replace my J. Crew lug sole boots from the early 1990s, but actually ended up being a reasonably close facsimile to the Indy boot. There are:
...and those rockports are pretty good "close-enoughs." I've been looking for a good pair of boots that don't cost $350.
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Ancient thread but questions of masculinity seem a perennial issue.
For the few comments I've gotten, simply saying, "This is a World War II Mark VII gas mask bag" shuts people up instantly and leaves them in a certain degree of awe. Ain't nothing more manly than that, and I take mine everywhere unless I have to carry my laptop...
For the few comments I've gotten, simply saying, "This is a World War II Mark VII gas mask bag" shuts people up instantly and leaves them in a certain degree of awe. Ain't nothing more manly than that, and I take mine everywhere unless I have to carry my laptop...
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I totally agree with this. This bag has character. Man-purses don't have character.binkmeisterRick wrote:Robby, it's hard to get more masculine than a gas mask bag!
This bag has seen war, traveled foreign lands, witnessed cities falls, and battles turned before making its way to you. Show me a man-purse that'd done....
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